The Fast and Furious Life of an Urban Blonde

"It’s a very personal thing this, but when I was in Poirot a few years ago I was filming the day before I got married and I had a wonderful day on the set - everyone was so lovely, we’d been filming in Morocco and everything was very joyous, and I thought ‘Isn’t this lovely, I’m in Poirot!’ And as I was leaving David came over to wish me good luck, and when he’s dressed as Poirot he still does the voice and everything, and he kind of blessed me as Poirot. It sounds slightly silly but it really moved me, it felt like all my Sunday nights were patting me on the head, it was very charming of him." [x]

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allhailthehutch:

Taking naked pictures of yourself does not make you a bad person. People who share them without your permission are bad people.

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vulgarera:

parkingstrange:

the hit was super effective

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cumgirl1:

"im tired of seeing posts about Ferguson" yeah well im tired of white cops killing black people so

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susiethemoderator:

cheeky—-cunt:

PSA

How to keep yourself safe from iCloud hackers. Please make sure your auto photo sharing is turned off so that others don’t fall victim to having their photos stolen like those poor celebs.

Reblog to get the word out!

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Anonymous said: Hi... I am having some serious issues with stress and anxiety this year, and I have made an appt. to speak to a psychiatrist about it. It was nerve-wracking but I think it will help. My problem is... the appt. is months away, and it was the earliest time available. I need help now! I am afraid of what my issues are doing to my schoolwork, and my levels of anxiety are increasing constantly. I am losing any ability I had to cope with this and it's starting to affect my life

mentalillnessmouse:

Hey there anon, I’m proud of you for reaching out and making an appointment to speak to a professional about this. that is a long time to wait for an appointment. 

In the meanwhile I encourage you to send an email or write a note to your school’s disability services or school nurse/wellness center to explain your condition. The school and staff should be accommodating for your inability to complete schoolwork in a timely fashion.They can also help direct you to more immediate resources. 

In the meanwhile I encourage you to look at our helpful resources for anxiety :

Anxiety and Panic Disorder

I highly recommend MoodGym and the Anxiety Management Techniques post, specifically the tidbit on carrying around a calming object with you to focus on when you’re feeling under pressure or anxious. 

To add to that, here are posts on handling stress :

http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/how-to-manage-stress/how-to-relax/?o=6278

http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/how-to-manage-stress/what-else-can-i-do/?o=6278

http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/stress-tips/about-stress/?o=6283#.UqTX8sRDthw

We’re also here to talk if you need anything :)

TL;DR : 

  • Carry around an object that you can focus on when you feel anxiety or panic increasing. Alternatively, have a poem onhand you can recite to focus your attention and mind
  • Exercise, eat, and sleep right. Prioritize and list out activities you need to do so you don’t stress yourself out as easily.
  • Gauge your own body and mind’s stress level and go from there :)

Best wishes !

-Safet

floozys:

i don’t care about straight girls who are afraid to cut their hair short in case they get called lesbians, i care about the fact that lesbians are being used as fucking insults 

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blackfemalepresident:

black girls with eating disorders are so important & need to be protected

because it’s believed that we don’t think about things like that, we all apparently love our “inherently” thick bodies and thickness is something we all glorify and strive to achieve

we’re too “strong” to have any kind of illness, especially not an ED

EDs among black girls are so common and are easily dismissed as “white girl stuff” and thats so destructive and harmful

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The basis of most arguments against trans people is that we are not who we say we are, that we are always and only the gender that we were assigned at birth. And so much of that is about having a sense of certainty around gender, that when you were born with a certain set of genitalia, then that must dictate your entire life, and the reality is that that’s not trueA lot of people are not comfortable with that, because then that means they have to begin to question who they are.- Laverne Cox

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